Especially SelectiveRoseann Higgins · SPIES™
Private matchmaking · Arizona since 1994

You built the life.She is who’s missing from it.

Roseann Higgins personally searches for, vets, and introduces the woman you would never meet on your own. No apps. No profiles. No assistants. One conversation with Roseann to start.

The first conversation is complimentary and carries no obligation. Everything you share stays with Roseann.

Roseann Higgins, founder of Especially Selective
Roseann HigginsFounder · Romance Headhunter™ · Since 1994
As seen in & recognized by
Fox BusinessABC NewsNBC NewsCBS NewsFox 10 News12 NewsInc.The Business JournalAZ FoothillsBBB Accredited BusinessBBB Torch Awards for Ethics
184+
Marriages sparked
82+
Clients who fell in love on their first introduction
10K+
Events attended, in person
300+
TV, radio & press features

Figures from Roseann’s own client records since 1994.

Who she works for

The man who has everything except her.

CEOs, surgeons, attorneys, developers, engineers, investors, and philanthropists. Men who vet every partner and manage every risk in business, and who have never had a real system for the most important decision of their lives.

01

No time to search

You travel, you build, you carry a full calendar. Your capacity for the modern dating landscape is close to zero.

02

High standards, not unrealistic ones

You know what you want. You have been told it is too much. It is not. You simply haven’t had access to the right women.

03

Starting over, on purpose

Divorce, loss, the end of something long. You are not looking for distraction. You are ready to build something real.

04

Depth, not just attraction

Attraction was never your problem. You want someone you can’t stop talking to and can’t imagine not sharing your life with.

How it works

A search, not a subscription.

Roseann runs your search the way an executive recruiter runs a CEO search: defined brief, active outreach, careful vetting, and a decision you make with full information.

STEP 01

A conversation

You speak with Roseann directly. She learns who you are, what you have built, and what you want next. Complimentary.

STEP 02

Your brief

If it is a fit, you choose an engagement and define the search together: values, lifestyle, attraction, readiness.

STEP 03

The hunt

Roseann approaches women in the real world, at galas, luncheons, charity events, and private gatherings, then vets each one personally.

STEP 04

Introductions

She presents only the women she believes in. Mutual interest is confirmed before anyone meets. You never go in blind.

Every search is led personally by Roseann and every introduction is made by her.
The MESH™ methodology

Four things that decide whether it lasts.

Roseann calls it Romance Headhunting™: executive search discipline combined with thirty years of reading people accurately in person. Every introduction is matched on all four.

Why a search, not an app

The difference is who does the work.

Dating appsRoseann
How women are foundThey find the app and build a profileRoseann meets them in person and recruits them
Who runs the searchAn algorithm. You do the browsing.Roseann, personally
Before you meetA photo and a bioVetted, with mutual interest confirmed in advance
Your visibilityA public profileNever listed, never public
Your timeOngoing swiping and messagingA defined search. Roseann does the work.
Where she finds them

The women you want are not on apps.

They are living full lives. Roseann is in the room, at the places extraordinary women actually spend their time, and she finds them before anyone else thinks to look.

10K+

events attended since 1994

Roseann Higgins on her way to an event in Scottsdale
The Phoenix OpenCharity galasWomen’s business luncheonsYoga classesPrivate women’s gatheringsConferencesHiking trailsCoffee shopsConcertsArt openingsPrivate dinners
Two engagements · One standard

Choose the reach of your search.

Both are led personally by Roseann. Investment is stated openly so you can decide with clarity before you ever speak.

Phoenix · Scottsdale · The Valley

The Flagship Search™

12-month engagement

Thirty-two years of relationships and more than 10,000 events, activated on your behalf across the Valley of the Sun.

  • Roseann personally leads and makes every introduction
  • Active, in-person recruiting across the Valley
  • Every candidate vetted before you meet
  • Complete confidentiality
Investment begins at$25,000
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Multi-city · By application

The National Wife Search™

For a life that spans more than one place

For the man with a second home, regular travel, or cities he loves, and who is not certain she lives in Arizona. His life spans places. His search should too.

  • Everything in the Flagship, extended nationally
  • Search shaped around where you actually live and travel
  • Reserved for men committed to marriage
  • Complete confidentiality
Investment begins at$53,500
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Love stories

This is what a Roseann introduction feels like.

Every one of these began with a single phone call.

A women’s business luncheon

The second date was in Cairo.

He was an airline pilot. Roseann found her at a women’s business luncheon: a female aviation executive who had never been on a list like this before. He met her without seeing a photograph first. They traveled the world together. Their second date was in Cairo.

First introduction

New Year’s Eve at the Boulders.

Jim met Sabrina on his very first introduction. Two weeks later, Sabrina told Roseann that if he proposed, she would say yes. They married on New Year’s Eve at the Scottsdale Boulders Resort. Soulmates to this day.

The Friday introduction

A family of five, and Jack the dog.

Roseann met Kaley while scouting a venue, and saw at once what kind of wife she would make. She introduced her to David that Friday. After their first date, Kaley said he made her tingle from head to toe. They married and have three children.

Roseann Higgins
Meet Roseann Higgins

Arizona’s most awarded matchmaker, and its most discreet.

“You hire professionals for every other aspect of your life. I couldn’t understand why no one had built a real search firm for love. So I built one.”

After months of researching the dating industry in the 1990s, Roseann saw that busy, exceptional men were underserved by every option available. She combined executive headhunting with sixteen years of Navy experience reading people under pressure. Her first client was an ER physician.

U.S. Navy · 16 yearsChief Petty Officer and commissioned officer. Sailor of the Year. Navy Career Counselor.
Top Secret (SBI) clearanceThe same discretion applies to every engagement. Your name is never disclosed.
Presidential Inaugural CommitteeGeorge H.W. Bush. Congressional intern, House Armed Services Committee.
B.A. Political ScienceGeorge Washington University.
BBB Torch Award for Ethics, finalistRecognized for how the business is run, not only what it produces.
Matchmaking A Difference Foundation™Her nonprofit, founded by Roseann.
As featuredFOX News PhoenixArizona Foothills Magazine · Best Matchmaker 2014–2026
Discretion

Your name is never disclosed.

Privacy is not a feature here. It is the working condition. Roseann holds your search to the standard she held national security information.

No public profile

There is no listing, no database a stranger can browse, and no photo of you online. Your search lives with Roseann.

One point of contact

You deal with Roseann personally, from the first call to the last introduction. No one else handles your information.

Vetted both ways

Every woman is screened before she hears your story, and she is only introduced if she is as interested as you are.

The SPIES™ Brief

Love, strategy & secrets for the especially selective.

Questions

What men ask first.

Is the first conversation really free?

Yes. The first conversation with Roseann is complimentary and carries no commitment. It is simply a conversation about who you are and what you want.

Who will see my information?

Roseann and her private team only. Your name and your participation are never disclosed to anyone, and nothing is published or shared publicly.

Is this a dating service?

No. It is a confidential search firm for romance. Roseann approaches women directly in the real world, vets them, and introduces only those she believes are right for you.

How is this different from apps or other matchmakers?

There is no algorithm and no browsing. Roseann leads every search herself, finds women who are not on apps, and confirms mutual interest before any introduction.

Do you work with women too?

Yes, by invitation. Membership is complimentary for exceptional candidates, because the search is retained by the gentleman client. Learn more for women.

What does it cost?

The Flagship Search™ begins at $25,000 for a 12-month engagement. The National Wife Search™ begins at $53,500. Roseann will discuss the right scope with you directly.

Begin privately

One conversation with Roseann.

Tell her a little about yourself. Your inquiry goes directly to Roseann.

  • Complimentary and without obligation
  • Led personally by Roseann from first call to last introduction
  • Held in confidence, always

Prefer to call? 602.241.1800

Private inquiry

Step 1 of 2. Roseann reads this herself.

What are you looking for?

Step 2 of 2. Choose what fits best.

Your information goes only to Roseann and is never shared or published.

Thank you. Your email app should open with your message ready to send to Roseann.
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